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A Winter Visit to the Valley of the Sun

2/22/10 - Phoenix & Scottsdale, AZ

Exploring down-to-earth Phoenix and doing the requisite Scottsdale (& Tempe) shopping...in the rain

It's been a long winter here in the Sandia Foothills of Albuquerque.  Unlike the lower elevation areas in town, we've been pounded with snow (relatively speaking, of course) up here.  Our window and door installation has been dragging on, hindered by measuring mistakes, weather delays and illness, and our installer decided he wanted to work on finishing the drywall windowsills and staining the newly installed doors and windows all weekend.  We needed to get out of here!  We'd been talking about going to Phoenix to enjoy some warmer weather and to look at some new dining chairs at Ikea that will give a more updated look to our old wood table.  We also had our eye on a couple different martini glasses (we've become really into Hendrick's martinis lately) on-line at Crate & Barrel and wanted to see them in person in order to make a decision.  Even though the forecast for the weekend was for disappointingly chilly temps and rain, we decided to go anyway  (more  text & photos)

   
5 Clothing Items Lost, 4 Beds Slept In, 3 Families Visited, 2 States Traveled to and  1 Very Active Pre-schooler, or How We Spent Our Christmas Holiday 2009

1/11/10 - Dexter, MI; Lake Orion, MI, Alexandria, VA and Washington D.C.

Celebrating the Christmas holiday visiting family and friends in the Detroit and Washington D.C. Areas

This holiday season we steeled ourselves for an aggressive Midwest-east coast visiting schedule.  In the space of 8 days, we planned to visit two families in two locations in Michigan - Scott's parents in Dexter and Caroline's sister Jen's family in Lake Orion - and Caroline's dad's side in Alexandria, VA.  Were we crazy?!  In retrospect, most definitely!  But while being incredibly hectic and exhausting, it was also a very satisfying visit in every respect. 

 

Very late on Saturday, December 20th we arrived at Scott's parents' house in Dexter, Michigan, after a long and crowded but otherwise uneventful flight from Albuquerque.  Although there in Dexter for only one full day, thanks to Scott's mom Denise's planning prowess, we had an opportunity to catch (more  text & photos)

   
Happy Holidays From Scott and Caroline!  

12/07/09 - Albuquerque, NM

Scott & Caroline's holiday greetings and 2009 Year-in-Review

 

Holiday greetings to all our Family and Friends! 2009 was a year full of good times enjoyed with family and friends and just enough travel to keep our chronic case of wanderlust satisfied. We occupied ourselves with lots of cooking, eating and drinking, spending time with friends and exploring the nooks and crannies of our current home state of New Mexico.  In addition to our New Mexico wanderings, we managed to get away further from home on several occasions this year: a bachelor party weekend in Las Vegas (Caroline tagged along for some pool-time), Memorial Day Weekend in Puerto Vallarta (following Caroline's 2-month, full-time temp job), Caroline's 40th birthday celebration in the San Juan Mountains of Colorado in June and a couple of trips to Arizona to the Grand Canyon (January) and for some Phoenix-area shopping (August).  Caroline traveled to the Midwest twice this year - a solo family visit to Michigan in August and a month later (more text & photos)

   
Ice Skating and A Little Holiday Cheer with Friends  

12/05/09 - Albuquerque, NM

Skating at the Outpost Ice Rink and inviting friends back to the house for some green chile stew and holiday cheer

 

This year, we thought it would be fun to celebrate the season with a visit to our local indoor ice skating rink, The Outpost, located just up the road from our house.  Being the Midwesterners, born and bred, that we are, we laced up our rental skates and had a great time, gilding effortlessly (ok, maybe we weren't quite that graceful) around the impressive 1/5 mile 'CoolLoop.'  However, in planning this little gathering we failed to anticipate that, well, residents of New Mexico just aren't that into ice skating.  A big, hearty thanks goes out to Eric, Erica, Julia and Jeremy for being brave and fun-loving enough to join us at the rink!  Once back at the house, we were joined by numerous other friends, festively dressed for the season.  There, the merrymaking continued in a (slightly) less slippery and dangerous form, aided by Scott's delicious and well-received green chile chicken stew, a big pot of hot chocolate, a log in the fireplace and lots (and lots) of wine - just our kind of holiday!   (more  photos)

   
Thanksgiving in the Rockies  

11/30/09 - Boulder, Denver & Rocky Mountain National Park, CO

Spending the holiday weekend enjoying the beauty of a wintry national park and upscale delights of urban Colorado

 

With family and friends too far to visit without getting on a plane, we decided to take advantage of Scott's 4 days off work and treat ourselves with a driving trip to downtown Denver combined with Thanksgiving Day in Rocky Mountain National Park.  We left early Wednesday morning, and after a semi-productive trip to the Outlets of Castle Rock south of Denver, we found ourselves at our latest Priceline Hotel, the Millennium Harvest House Hotel.  We were assigned a room in a side building, needing remodeling and probably reserved specifically for Priceline customers.  The bed was comfortable at least and it was fine for one night, but Caroline could have done without the acoustic tiles in the corridor ceilings.  The excitement of our trip began when we were seated next to a drunken, 29-year-old carpenter working on his 5th DWI at the reasonably upscale Boulder Cafe (I mean this is Boulder) downtown on the Pearl Street Mall.  He introduced (more text & photos)

   
Autumn in  New Mexico!  

10/09 - Albuquerque & various other locations in New Mexico

Enjoying the natural beauty of New Mexico and a wonderful visit from Scott's parents

 

No matter where we happen to be, Fall is always a favorite time of year for us.  New Mexico is especially beautiful during this season and, like last year, we were committed to taking advantage of the wonderful scenery and weather that is autumn in New Mexico.  This year we got a slow start, as we both succumbed to lengthy upper respiratory illnesses following our flight home from cousin Amelia's wedding in September.  However, we still managed to enjoy a few regional scenery destinations in our current home state during the month of October.  Specifically, we visited 4th of July Canyon, the Very Large Array (VLA) & El Malpais National Monument (with a stop - for pie - in Pie Town, NM) and Cimarron Canyon State Park & the Enchanted Circle near Taos (including an overnight stay in Taos).  And last but not least, over Halloween weekend, Scott's parents came for a visit, giving us the opportunity to show them 3 seasons of New Mexico weather in a single    (more text & photos)

   
A Midwestern Wedding Weekend  

9/25 - 9/28/09 - Chicago, IL & South Bend, IN

Celebrating the marriage of Amelia & Graham in South Bend, preceded by a quick stopover in Chicago to visit Caroline's childhood friends, Brian and Barb

 

On a Friday morning towards the end of September, we boarded a plane and headed east in order to attend the wedding of Caroline's cousin, Amelia, in South Bend, IN.   Although Amelia, like Caroline, has ties to Michigan, both she and her fiancé, Graham, were PhD students at Notre Dame when they became engaged and, as such, they decided to hold the wedding there.  Since our final flight destination was Chicago (we would rent a car and drive to South Bend from there), we decided to leave Albuquerque a day early and visit some childhood friends of Caroline's in the Windy City.  As luck would have it, both Barb and Brian were able to meet up with us at the Elephant & Castle Pub, where the 3 old friends caught up and reminisced about days gone by.  Even more luckily, we also had the opportunity to meet Brian's new wife Katelyn, who did an admirable job, along with Scott, of putting up with the trio's antics and (probably very boring) old stories.  It was a  (more text & photos)

   
Lordy, Lordy, Look Who's 40!  

6/10/09 - San Juan Skyway Scenic Loop - Ouray & Telluride, CO

Celebrating Caroline's 40th birthday in style with some top-notch Colorado soaking, hiking, eating and drinking

 

Since Caroline's birthday happened to fall right on the heels of our recent trip to Mexico, we decided to do a driving trip this time, in celebration of her milestone birthday.  We had been wanting to explore southwestern Colorado's most highly regarded scenic byway known as the San Juan Skyway since moving to New Mexico and decided that now was the perfect time!  The initial portion of the scenic loop, beginning in Durango, CO, was full of stunning mountain scenery - tall snow-capped peaks in the distance surrounded by deep green evergreens and newly leaved aspens, and waterfalls everywhere we looked! - as we traversed the numerous tight switchbacks of Red Mountain Pass.  Wow, simply wow!  Upon arriving at our first destination, the old-mining-now-tourist town of Ouray, CO, we began our celebration in earnest and in style by spending the first night of our tour  (more text & photos)

   
A Little Business and a Lot of Relaxing on the Mexican Riviera...Aaahhhh!  

5/27/09 - Puerto Vallarta, Jalisco, MX

Making a quick trip down to Mexico to pick up our condo deed and check up on Casita Encantada

 

After a long winter and early spring in Albuquerque largely spent working (even Caroline completed a two-month temp assignment in the spring scoring standardized test essays) and staying close to home exploring our local hiking trails on the weekends, we were feeling ready for a change of scene.  With Memorial Day coming up, we decided to take advantage of the long holiday weekend and take a multi-purpose trip down to Puerto Vallarta, MX, where our condo, Casita Encantada, is located.   Our last visit to PV was over 2 years ago, in March 2007, just before we moved into our first residence in New Mexico.  Since then, we had learned that the deed to our condo (that we purchased in 2005) was finally available and that furthermore, we were required to pick it up in person.  Hence, a trip was in order!  This would also provide a good opportunity for us to inspect the condition of the condo, doing any necessary stocking up of supplies and checking to see if any replacements and/or repairs were needed; we've had a pretty steady flow of guests since our last visit and the humid coastal weather there takes a toll on things like appliances and upholstery.  A little R&R for  (more text & photos)

   
Grand Canyon, in the Snow...or Slush (...or Mule Dung)  

1/26/09 - Grand Canyon National Park - South Rim

Visiting the Grand Canyon for some winter hiking

 

Ever since last winter, we've been talking about returning to one of the national parks that we had visited in the past to see it in the snow with the winter wildlife out.  By January, it looked like another winter was going to pass us by without any national park visits - it was time to act fast.  We would have really liked to go to Rocky Mountain National Park, or return to Yellowstone, but due to our limited time we selected a closer destination - Grand Canyon National Park (not a bad third choice).  Checking the weather for about a week before, it looked like it could be anywhere from 4 degrees and snowy to 60 degrees and rainy... We hoped for snow more than rain, but could do without temps quite that low.

Caroline picked Scott up from work at 1:30, as Scott's boss likes to ditch early on Fridays herself to go camping from time to time, and we (more text & photos)

   
Operation Snowshoe 2009!  

1/11/09 - Valles Caldera National Preserve near Jemez Springs, NM

Snowshoeing with friends in the Jemez Mountains north of Albuquerque

 

The morning was still and clear: a perfect time to head out to the mountains north of Albuquerque and for Caroline and Scott to try out snowshoeing for the first time.  We loaded our rented snowshoes and other gear into the van and after a yummy group breakfast at Weck's Restaurant, friends Naomi, Petra and Tanya piled into the van with us and we headed north into snow country.  It was pretty nerve-racking at first, after driving for more than an hour only to find dry roadways and snow-less mountains.  But we persevered and finally came across the East Fork trail, marked with a small cross-country ski sign on a tree.  The snow looked more than plentiful - we were in business! 

Our party, headed up by Naomi, was comprised of three novices and two experienced snowshoe-ers.  Being two of the three novices, we weren't sure exactly what to expect; snowshoeing always seemed like something that, while handy if you need to walk across snow you might sink into, a lot of work that can be avoided by not snowshoeing.  In some places, it definitely seemed helpful to have the snowshoes, like we were moving with greater ease by not breaking through the top frozen layer of snow.  Since we were mostly walking on a frequently traversed path, however, most of the snow was pretty well packed.  Scott, of course, needed to spend time off the path to make full use of his equipment, and was surprised just how far you can sink into the snow even while wearing snowshoes.  Although fairly easy to move about in - after all, Naomi was able to show us dance poses and Scott was (nearly) able to click his snow-shoe-heels - both (and only) Caroline and Scott (more text & photos)

   
A White Christmas in Michigan  

12/24 - 12/28/08 - Various southeastern Michigan cities

Scott & Caroline visit lots of family and friends during a brief, whirlwind holiday visit

 

By some amazing winter weather miracle, we arrived at Detroit Metro International Airport shortly after scheduled on Christmas Eve and spent an enjoyable evening at Scott's Mom and Dad's house in Dexter with his brothers and aunt and uncle, drinking Denise's now-famous alcoholic slushies, exchanging gifts and playing Wii bowling.  On Christmas morning, it was off to Lake Orion to celebrate with Caroline's family and to spend some QT with our energetic 2-year-old nephew, Christopher.  After this trip, Christopher definitely has a new 'favorite uncle' (even if he does only have one) - Uncle 'Cott!  Christmas night was the annual Brooks Family party at Aunt Sandy and Uncle Walt's, where we got to catch up with all of Scott's Brooks aunts, uncles and cousins.  Over the weekend, we managed to squeeze in visits with a few friends, Cousin Don's family and a quick visit to the outlet mall before flying home on Sunday night.  Although the trip felt a bit hectic and rushed at times, it was wonderful to see everyone and by Sunday we were ready to return home for some much-needed New Mexico winter sun!  Happy New Year, everyone!  We look forward to seeing some of you here in Albuquerque in 2009!  (more photos)

   
Happy Holidays From Scott & Caroline!  

12/17/08 - Albuquerque, NM

Scott & Caroline's holiday greetings and 2008 Year-in-Review

 

Holiday greetings to all our Family and Friends!  Once again, we can barely believe another year has slipped by since our last holiday newsletter.  It has been a busy year (of course - we are the Brookses, after all!), but with slightly fewer exciting adventures as in recent years.  As many of you know, we closed on a house here in Albuquerque at the end of January, after living the free-and-easy renters’ life in 2007.  Our ‘new’ 25-year-old home, located in the foothills of Albuquerque’s Sandia Mountains, has required a bit of TLC.  Sometimes we still wonder what we were thinking, becoming homeowners again!

Much of our year revolved around the new house as, in addition to completing repairs typical to a neglected older home, we decided to do a somewhat extensive renovation of the Master Suite.  The renovation project included gutting the master bath, turning the existing hallway into a walk-in closet and building a larger laundry room in what was originally the master closet.  Over-budget and taking far longer than anticipated (of   (more text & photos)

   
The Brookses' Holiday Cocktail Party  

12/14/08 - Albuquerque, NM

Enjoying an afternoon-into-evening of champagne cocktails, eggnog, Scott's delicious hors d'oeuvres and friends - new and old!

 

The house was decorated and spotless, the food was bought and prepared, the drinks were chilled and, most importantly, the major renovations of the year were finished - time to invite the friends! We spent a lovely Saturday afternoon and early evening, welcoming friends into our home and celebrating the holidays with food and (alcoholic) cheer!  The champagne cocktails and eggnog were enjoyed by all and the conversation was lively.  We had a wonderful time mingling with old friends and making new ones and hope our guests enjoyed themselves as much as we did.  Thanks to all who attended  for helping make our party a success (and for your wonderful hostess gifts!).  We hope to see you all again soon and wish you a joyful holiday season! (more photos)

   
Thanksgiving Weekend in the Bay Area  

11/30/08 - Oakland, San Rafael & San Francisco, CA

Frying turkeys, visiting friends and enjoying a visit to our old hometown

 

Having left San Francisco for Mexico at about this time 4 years ago, we decided that a visit to one of our favorite residences and some of our best friends was long overdue.  Ignoring the sad state of our finances, we hopped on a plane on Thanksgiving morning and flew to Oakland, home of the Oakland International Airport and conveniently, of our friends Jen and Tod.  After a brief morning stroll (our flight arrived at 8:30am!) on the sunny Alameda waterfront, the fog rolled in and we headed for Jen & Tod's beautiful view-home (although, sadly, we didn't get to see much of the view in the fog) in the Oakland Hills.  A short time after our arrival, friends Mark & Christine arrived and we all cooked dinner together in Jen's gorgeous remodeled (and humongous!) kitchen, while snacking on Jen's delicious baked brie and homemade hummus (ok, some of us were doing more eating than cooking).  Tod broke out some fabulous wines from his floor-to-ceiling-height wine fridge, and we proceeded to imbibe (a lot) while tending the  (more text & photos)

   
Another Autumn Road-Trip Weekend in Colorado  

10/21/08 - Colorado Springs, CO - Pikes Peak, Florissant Fossil Beds National Monument and the Royal Gorge Bridge

Another action-packed overnight trip to Colorado

 

Even though we've been very busy, what with Scott now working full-time and helping Caroline with home staging activities after-hours, we were feeling anxious to see as much fall color as possible this year, before the leaves are all on the ground.  After working hard all Friday evening to de-stage a home that we were informed on Thursday was scheduled to close just over a week later (giving us only one weekend to dismantle the job), we hit the road at 6:00 am on Saturday and headed to Colorado Springs.  We had been so busy prior to departure that we didn't have much time to plan, and so we didn't really know what to expect (isn't that half the fun?!).  But the weather forecast was warm and sunny (unlike last weekend's thunderstorms, wind and rain) and hey, how bad can Colorado be, we reasoned. 

Upon leaving the New Mexico desert that we call home and entering the mountains of New Mexico as we headed north on I-25, the aspens were in full color and their fiery-yellow leaves were simply ablaze in the warm, fall sunshine.  Pay-dirt!  Our first stop in Colorado was the top of Pikes Peak.  Wow, just wow!  Although it was a difficult (and expensive!) drive to the top - Caroline had difficulty breathing as we climbed in altitude - it was worth it!  The summit, where we ended up, is at 14,115 feet and the vistas all around are so majestic and far-flung that it is similar to the view from an airplane.  Pretty cool.  After coming down the mountain, we took a very pleasant hike in the Red Rock Canyon Open Space (thankfully free-of charge, as we are on quite a budget these days), where we were surrounded by beautiful red rocks and colorful fall foliage.  After briefly scoping out downtown dinner options, we headed to our amazing Priceline score of a hotel, the Crown Plaza, a short drive from downtown and at $42 plus tax, an amazing  (more text & photos)

   
The Autumn Road-Trip Weekend Season Begins  

9/21/08 - Mesa Verde, CO, Four Corners CO/NM/UT/AZ, and Canyon de Chelly, AZ

An overnight trip to four states and another nation

 

This time of year is a beautiful time to travel in the Southwest (but as we always say, where isn't it?).  So we decided we are going to take full advantage of our weekends this Fall and see some of our local (well, within a 6-hour drive) sites that we've been meaning to check out.  First was a trip up to southwest Colorado to Mesa Verde National Park.  Leaving Albuquerque at 6am, we took a beautiful 4-hour drive up Hwy 550 through Durango, CO to the park.  We passed through the entrance station and took a winding but beautiful drive up to the top of the mesa, where the primary sites and our lodging for the night were located.  Mesa Verde is primarily known for its ruins.  Ancient ancestors of the current Southwest Pueblo tribes built pit houses (~600 A.D.) and more sophisticated cliff dwellings (1000 - 1200 A.D.) in this region, and many of the ruins are still in quite good condition.  We took a couple of very interesting tours (you're only able to visit the good stuff via tour), saw a huge bear, and logged a lot of mesa-top miles on the minivan before topping the day off with a nice evening of drinks and dinner back at the Farview Lodge.  As is often the case during our travels in the National Parks, there were as many Europeans as Americans there (nearly all French, German, and English - in that order), which always makes us think that there must be many Americans missing out on some of this country's 'greatest hits' (the best of America's landscape, history, ecology, geology, etc.).  Guess that means more room for us.

Sunday morning we woke up and decided to take a different route home.  We first headed for the nearby landmark known as The Four Corners, the only place in the country where four states meet (Utah, Colorado, Arizona, and New Mexico), ironically located in the Navajo Nation (more text & photos)

   
The Piper Must Be Paid  

9/18/08 - Albuquerque, NM

Scott goes to work at a "real" job

 

Their accounts have lost significant value, their infrastructure crumbling... Will the government come in and save them?  If only we were talking about huge insurance companies or investment banks the answer might be yes, but as you can probably guess this little story is not about those storied financial institutions about which you've heard so much.  No, this sad tale is about the namesake of this website... namely, Scott.  Nearly four years after ditching their employment back in San Francisco, the money has finally run out.  The remodel and the trip to Africa pushed us over the edge, and Scott has decided to dust off his MBA and see if he can't put it to work (after all, there are still business school loans to pay, too!).  Although we had been warned by several people that our 'resume gap' (please see scottandcaroline.com for details on said gap) would make it extremely difficult, if not impossible for us to get so much as a job cleaning port-a-potties at the State Fair, it turned out that apparently people don't seem to care that much.  A week or two after applying for a few jobs, Scott was hired as a Financial Analyst (aaaahhh, the good ole days) at the University of New Mexico Hospital here in Albuquerque.  Will it be easy to head back to the 8 to 5?  Hardly.  I mean, two weeks of vacation per year?  You've gotta be kidding.  But the paychecks have started rolling in and we'll start settling into some normalcy for a while.  Hopefully not too normal.

Some of you might be asking yourselves, "what about that home staging business...you know, what's it called...oh yeah!  The Alluring Home.  Right, what happened to that whole deal?"  Well, it's still lumbering along.  While we really haven't actively sought business since last January  (more text & photos)

   
Letts in the Southwest  

9/1/08 - Albuquerque, NM  (Shutterfly photo album)

Chris, Jacque, and not-yet-born baby Larry pay a Labor Day weekend visit

 

After plans to visit us last Memorial Day fell through, Chris & Jacque made the commitment to travel out to Albuquerque over Labor Day weekend to visit Scott, Caroline, and the snakes of New Mexico.  They arrived the Friday of Scott's first week of work, and he was already raring to enjoy his much needed long weekend with the Letts. 

Friday night was off to El Pinto restaurant to introduce our guests to the local cuisine and margaritas - though Jacque's 'condition' prevented her from partaking of any tequila (which served as an advantage later that weekend - pregnant ladies make great designated drivers!). (more text & photos)

   
The Call to Prayer...or The Busiest Little "Village" in the World  

8/18/08 - Kano, Zaria, Kaduna & Abuja, Nigeria; Atlanta & Albuquerque, USA  (Shutterfly photo album - Nigeria-Kano, Zaria, Abuja)

We experience a Muslim prayer service of grand proportions and make our way back to Western-style living at the Abuja Sheraton, before flying home

 

We would have like to stay another day and hire the same guide again, but in the morning (Friday), we decided to quickly visit the Mosque in Kano and drive on, in the hopes of making it to Zaria in time for the weekly Friday prayer service (like Sunday for Catholics).  First, we found the Emir's Palace (with more of the same "WHEYA IZ IT?!!!," from Gausil), which we weren't allowed to go into since we had no appointment.  It seemed to be bustling with visitors (we're doubting they all had appointments) and plenty of goats out front - which were everywhere in Kano, including being transported on okadas.  Then it was off to the Mosque.  Again, we were only allowed in the courtyard and not inside the Mosque due to our apparently obviously non-Muslim status.  We did get approached by a group of angry men telling us we were not allowed to be in the courtyard either, but Gausil yelled at them, telling them he was Muslim and we could be there if we wanted.  He claimed we wouldn't have been able to get as close as we did had we not been wearing our African clothes - another great reason for the Nigerian threads!

By the time we hit Zaria, about 90 minutes south of Kano, it was almost 2pm and time for Friday prayers at the Mosque & Emir's Palace compound.  Supposedly a "village," there are about 1 million people living in Zaria, and a good percentage of the men were also heading toward (more text & photos)

   
Kano - Aaahhh, Now This Is What We Came For (Well, And For A Wedding, Of Course)!  

8/14/08 - Kano, Nigeria  (Shutterfly photo album - Nigeria-Kano, Zaria, Abuja)

Touring the ancient, walled, trade-route city of Kano

 

On Thursday after breakfast, we checked out of our hotel, Gausil came to collect us in the Toyota and we set off excitedly for Kano.  Based upon our Lonely Planet research, we had high hopes for what we would see in Kano, due to its status as a largely Muslim, very old walled city that was a major stop on the sub-Saharan trade route across Africa that is a bit of a tourist destination, if there is one in Nigeria.  After a pleasant 2-hour ride, we arrived in town and Gausil easily located our hotel, after a bit of asking around.  A friend of John's had kindly made us a reservation at the Prince Hotel, which also came highly recommended by our Lonely Planet guidebook.  John had written down the room category and the rate of 15,000 Naira on a sheet of paper for us.  They had the reservation for us but they were unwilling to honor the rate given over the phone, saying that the person who made our reservation for us must have made a mistake and wrote down the wrong amount - classic Nigeria (and Mexico, too, for that matter).  Now the  (more text & photos)

   
Jos, Watch Out, Here We Come!  

8/13/08 - Abuja & Jos, Nigeria  (Shutterfly photo album - Nigeria-Lagos, Abuja, Jos)

We breakfast with the family and leave Abuja solo, Jos-bound

 

This morning, Wednesday (week one - check!), we had one last breakfast with Trevor, Maria, and her (their) family.  We had a good conversation that morning, where we discovered that Caroline dances like an African (perhaps this explains her spraying wins), and that Maria and Quincy thought Scott was an Arab the first time they saw him (and thus might not stand out too much in the Muslim cities we were heading to).  Quincy marveled over the idea that we wanted to travel around and ‘see’ Nigeria and, upon seeing Scott consulting our Lonely Planet West Africa we had brought with us, the family all were very intrigued that a guidebook –  complete with maps – had been written about their country.  We also discussed some of the racism in Africa, how lighter-skinned Africans are seen as superior (and thus fetch bigger dowries) than dark-skinned Africans – explaining the advertisements for skin-lightening soaps and creams that we had seen.  This, while white people across America are applying sunless tanning lotions and/or subjecting themselves to harmful UV rays… apparently we all want to be the same, olive-y complexioned peoples. 

After discussing our touring plans in more detail, we think that Quincy was finally able to understand the type of travel experience (more text & photos)

   
Several Days in the Life of a Nigerian Visitor...or A Little of This, A Little of That  

8/12/08 - Lagos & Abuja, Nigeria  (Shutterfly photo album - Nigeria-Lagos, Abuja, Jos)

We attend church service with the family, have lunch at the Admiral's in Lagos and travel to the family's home in Abuja

 

The next day, Sunday, it was up early again, this time to go (back) to church for the usual weekly service.  It was the family's day to do thanksgiving and the remaining Americans (Greg and Geoff left on a morning flight today) participated in the ceremony (are you surprised?), with Scott offering a yam and Caroline a very ripe pineapple.  Post-service, we piled back in the van for a lunch of ram stew and jollof rice (very spicy, of course) at the house.  After a little visiting amongst ourselves, the Americans begged off, in desperate need of a nap after 3 busy days in a row.  We were taken back to the hotel, where we all passed out in our rooms and then enjoyed a pleasantly familiar meal together at the Italian restaurant in the hotel compound.

On Monday, feeling rested after yesterday's wedding recovery day, it was back to action.  First stop was lunch at “The Chairman’s” (aka “The Admiral”, aka “Favorite Uncle”) house.  Trevor needed to thank him for being the Chairman of the wedding.  While lunch was delicious (chicken, shrimp salad, moi moi, jollof & fried rice, Coke, Star beer and some Elvis Presley on the menu), the real treat was the tour of The Admiral’s water-  (more text & photos)

   
Trevor & Maria's Big Day - #2  

8/09/08 - Lagos, Nigeria  (Shutterfly photo album - Nigeria-Catholic church wedding!)

We attend the Catholic Church wedding ceremony and western-style reception for Trevor & Maria

 
Exhausted from the previous day's activities, we awoke on Saturday morning in our new, beautifully remodeled room in the main hotel building, a generous gift from Maria's father, compliments of PHCN, John's employer, that we moved into upon returning to the hotel after yesterdays festivities.  Thankfully, it was dry today.  Scott dressed in a regular business suit from home and Caroline put on casual clothes, to be dressed later in her complicated outfit at Maria's family's home, before heading to the church.  After breakfast and some photos of Trevor (seemingly dressed as P. Diddy) and the guys in the lobby, the van whisked us off to Maria's family home, as per usual.  Sally and Caroline were again taken upstairs and dressed and had their geles wrapped.  It is a most bizarre sensation to have a gele installed on your head and Sally and Caroline agreed that the feeling of having it done seemed totally different than to watch it being done to someone else.  We were running late and tensions were running high.  Normally mild-mannered and friendly, Maria's sister and maid of honor, Tola, rushed into our room without so much as a glance, rummaged in the closet, and rushed out.  (more text & photos)

   
Another Wedding to Remember - Trevor & Maria's Big Day - #1  

8/08/08 - Lagos, Nigeria  (Shutterfly photo album - Nigeria-traditional wedding!)

We attend the Traditional Engagement/Wedding ceremony for Trevor & Maria

 

On Friday morning, we awoke to the sound of rainwater rushing in torrents out of the gutter outside our room at the Eko Hotel.  "Oh, no," we thought, "it's going to be pouring rain on Trevor and Maria's wedding day!"  We looked down the street from above, only to see women, heads loaded with goods, wading through the flooded street up to their knees in water and okadas, the ubiquitous motorcycle taxis of Lagos, driving slowly down the street in water half way up their tires, the drivers with their pants rolled almost to the knee in an attempt to keep them dry.  Despite the rain, we got up and prepared for the day, donning our Nigerian outfits custom-made specifically to be worn today - 2-piece outfits in a beautiful indigo blue color, accented with a light blue star pattern woven into the fabric - as previously instructed by the bride.  With all this rain, Caroline thought to herself that luckily, it didn't matter what her hair looked like, since her head would eventually be covered with her gold gele, or traditional Nigerian headwrap.  Now there's a  (more text & photos)

   
Welcome to Nigeria...or, Don't Try This at Home!  

8/07/08 - Lagos, Nigeria  (Shutterfly photo album - Nigeria-pre-wedding)

Our trip begins, as we travel to Nigeria to attend friend Trevor's wedding and to see what this Nigeria place is all about

 

“What in God’s name are you doing going to Nigeria?” has been the most common reaction when we’ve told people our plans to head to Nigeria.  So, first off, allow us to explain WIGN our plans are.

Our friend from Michigan, Trevor, aka Dawger, akina (also known in Nigeria as) Tokunbo or simply Toks, found himself a lovely ladyfriend while on a long-term work assignment in the Baltimore area.  For purposes of this website we’ll call her Maria, since that’s her name.  It turned out that this Baltimore beauty was Nigerian, with the majority of her family living back in Lagos, Nigeria.  Next thing you know, they’re engaged (not quite as easy as it sounds when you’re following Nigerian engagement protocol – but I digress), and planning an African wedding.  As you’ve no doubt guessed, we were on the invitation list, and planned ourselves a nearly two week trip to see what we could see of Nigeria.

Now that we’re all up to speed on the reason for the trip, go ahead and kick back, grab a cup of palm wine, get your yellow fever and wild polio vaccines, take your anti-malaria pills, and read on.

Step one, buy expensive plane tickets and fly to Nigeria.  This accomplished, we landed at the Murtala Mohammed International (more text & photos)

   
A Wedding to Remember  

8/03/08 - San Diego, CA  (Shutterfly photo album - Deanna & Ryan's Wedding!)

We travel to San Diego to attend friends Deanna & Ryan's wedding and for a little summer-time R&R

 
After feverishly putting some finishing touches on our Master Suite Remodel and preparing for our big trip to Nigeria (for wedding #2), at the end of July we hit the road in our trusty van, the Golden Gancho, San Diego-bound.  Our remodel proved to be a bigger and more time-consuming job than originally anticipated and we spent the better part of the summer working on it.  We needed a vacation...baaaad.  So we left a few days early to enjoy some sand and surf, before attending Deanna & Ryan's wedding on August 2nd.  We splurged on a room at the swanky Ivy Hotel, where the wedding was taking place for 3 nights (Scott found an irresistible 24-hour internet sale on our room), but decided to save a little cash for the first two nights and ended up at the funky Lafayette Hotel, which we booked through Hotwire.  Well, it was clearly quite a grand place...a long, long time ago.  A little run-down these days and in a slightly unsavory neighborhood, it still had a sort of old-movie-star glamour and charm about it, if you could ignore its  (more text & photos)

   
Remodel Complete!  

7/24/08 - Albuquerque, NM 

Four months after moving into our new house, we can actually use our master suite!

 

We knew when we made the offer on our house we'd be doing some updating.  One of the things we wanted to fix was the master bathroom shower, which seemed way too small (and from 1983).  So we thought, "hmmm, if we're going to work on the shower, we might want to put in a jetted tub, in which case we'll want to put in a new floor, and if we're doing that we should put in a new vanity.  Since we're making that mess, let's change the master closet into a laundry room, and transform the hallway and laundry closet into the new master closet - which means we'll need to create a new door into the master bedroom.", etc., etc.  You can see that one thing led to another, and our enlarged shower turned into a huge project.  Besides updating the look of the bathroom, we wanted to make our house less 'apartment-y'.  Getting rid of our long hallway by transforming it into a walk-in (more text & photos)

   
Tailgating at the Opera  

6/27/08 - Santa Fe, NM  (Shutterfly photo album - Santa Fe Opera Tailgate Pics!)

We join friends Erica & Eric for an elegant evening in the Santa Fe Opera parking lot...and breathtaking amphitheater!

 
On Friday evening, June 27th, we loaded up Eric & Erica's (fancy) big ol' truck with the necessary supplies and headed up to Santa Fe for the opening night of the 2008 Santa Fe Opera season.  (The opera that evening was Falstaff, for anyone who actually cares.)  We pulled into the parking lot with all of the other variously attired opera-going-tailgaters, many formal or in costume, and set up our makeshift table, patio chairs and cocktail-party spread. The weather was perfect - balmy and overcast, but no rain - and the clouds only made the mountain setting that much more stunning.  After imbibing a few champagne cocktails and feasting on shrimp, ham & asparagus crepes, and gourmet cheese and crackers among other delights, we broke down our spread and headed into the open-air amphitheater for our first-ever opera performance.  Although we can't (and won't) necessarily claim to be opera fans, it was a very satisfying event, experiencing a beautifully set and costumed (and actually humorous) opera, while seeing the lightning (more text & photos)

   
Party Like It's 1983!  

3/08/08 - Albuquerque, NM   (Shutterfly photo album - Totally Awesome 80's Party Pics!)

Friends join us for a 'Vintage 1983' party at our new house

 
Before we make too many changes at our new, 'vintage', home, we wanted to revel in it's 1983-ness, and let others do so as well.  Our guests made a good showing, with lots of big jewelry, 80's hairstyles, and pegged pants to add plenty of authenticity.  The biggest hit had to be Eric's beautiful bleached blonde mullet, a pelt which was passed around and adorned by nearly all partygoers at one point or another.  Everyone also had clearly brushed up on their early 80's dance moves, as many of the skills displayed have certainly not been seen since 1985, or '86 at the very latest.  The snacks included some of our favorites from 25 years ago, such as spray cheese, pizza rolls, jiffy pop, a Hostess dessert platter, and a candy assortment including starburst and recess pieces, among others - all washed down with wine coolers.  Healthy?  Hardly - we didn't care, it was 1983 that night, we were invincible!  The photos say much more than we could ever hope to communicate with words...  Thanks for coming everybody!  (more photos)

   
Travelers' Pit Stop  

2/22/08 - Albuquerque, NM

We get a visit from Janet & Mark, formerly of San Francisco and soon to be of Washington D.C.

 
As a welcome reprieve from all the recent chaos that is our lives these days, we had the pleasure of an overnight visit from our friends Janet & Mark from San Francisco.  Upon their arrival in Albuquerque, they were in the process of making a cross-country drive/move from San Francisco to Washington D.C., where Janet has taken an architecture position with a former employer.  Janet's husband, Mark, also an architect, is looking forward to continuing his newfound 'International Man of Leisure' status for the time being and has big plans to hold court at the local coffee shop near their new apartment in the District.

We had a delightful time catching up with the travelers, sharing meals and travel tales at El Pinto New Mexican Restaurant and the (more text & photos)

   
Sandia Heights, Here We Come!  

2/22/08 - Albuquerque, NM

Home Sweet Home - or - the Brookses change residences yet again!

 
Well, we've been a little out of touch lately, so we thought it was high time for an update.  As many of you know, we've been very busy in recent months getting our new home staging business, The Alluring Home (www.thealluringhome.com), up and running.  It's been a huge undertaking, but we are well on our way! 

We also have the exciting (for us, anyway) announcement that, as of January 31, 2008, we are the proud new homeowners of 1902 Quail Run Road NE!  It proved to be quite a stressful transaction and we are very happy to have that over with!  We will still be residing here in the Duke (more text & photos)

   
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